The Battle for Your Mind

Episode 88 · March 6, 2025

Consciousness and how we perceive realityUnity, division and society

The Truth Hurts · Episode 88 · audio in Hebrew

The conversation

You live as though someone else decides how you'll feel today: the news, a threat, a post that knocks your confidence out from under you. Gili says that's no accident. There's already a war going on over our consciousness, not over territory, and every side, from the United States to China, knows how powerful it is. The reality you experience isn't set only by what happens outside, but by what you believe is happening, exactly like the placebo effect, where belief alone heals the body. Her conclusion: stop letting fear decide for you, and start choosing.

The truth

  • A war over consciousness is already underway, and TikTok is only one example of it. Both the United States and China, each for its own reasons, are afraid of that power.

  • Quantum theory says something simple and powerful: matter behaves differently depending on who is observing it. In other words, your consciousness creates the reality you experience.

  • Self-discipline that rests on fear is conditional love, which is why Gili suggests acting out of love rather than out of fear of what will happen if you don't measure up.

  • A threat is always a tool of control, and she recommends never letting a threat take you over.

  • Our own mind is the strongest prison there is. But it's also exactly our greatest power, the moment we make a decision and act on it.


Questions and answers

Why can a sugar pill heal me if I think it's real medicine?

A placebo is a dummy treatment with no active ingredient: a pill, an injection, even a sham surgery. In the episode Gili describes how the patient experiences symptoms and healing anyway, because simply knowing about the treatment and expecting it to work produces a change in the body. What determines the effect is the patient's outlook and beliefs, not the substance itself.

Why did the United States want to ban TikTok, and what does China have to do with it?

In the United States they wanted to shut TikTok down out of concern about its effect on consciousness. Gili points out that in China, where the app was developed, there is no version identical to the one we have, and that this comes from the same concern about the effect on consciousness. By her account, the government there limits both the content and how long people spend consuming it.

Gili's original episode description

While we're being taught to bow to the rules of religion, morality, government, science and the rest, nobody remembers to teach us that we have free choice. There is no absolute truth apart from the existence of the Creator. Beyond that, every truth is open to question. Everything exists, everything was created, everything is foreseen, and freedom of choice is granted. That freedom is a person's free choice, and it is the name of the game here.

A person's biggest prison is their own mind, their own consciousness. It's the strongest prison there is, and ladies and gentlemen, it's under our control. Mastery over thought is the essence of every religion. In Hasidic thought they call it the battle over the small city, meaning: who owns the conscious part of me, who's sitting in the captain's seat? Who's running me? My soul? The needs of my physical body? My animal soul? Mentally strong people have rules, they have values, they have boundaries. That's the foundation. Those rules apply first of all to themselves. Just as they set boundaries with the people around them, they set boundaries with themselves. That doesn't mean the boundaries have to be too extreme, but they also can't be so loose that any behavior goes. A mentally strong person knows what they want and which behaviors from other people they're willing to take. We are the ones who teach the people around us how to treat us, through what we're willing to put up with and what we're not. Our own free choice.

A person has to know what they want, because our brain has to know what we want. Our reality is a product of our consciousness. It's precisely the least realistic part, the part that dreams things up, that will bring you results.